Day 16 — Being Prepared When the Answer Is “No”

2 Corinthians 12:9 — “But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weakness, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.”

Have you ever prayed a specific, intentional, faith filled, passionate, earnest prayer and God said “no?” Wait…God says “no” sometimes? If you ever shared one (no judgment and I still love you) but there is a meme making the rounds on Facebook that says: “God will either answer your prayer “not yet” or “I have something better for you.” Really? God does say “no.” Sometimes no matter how faithfully we pray or how right or good something seems, God says “no.” We desperately pray for healing or deliverance, God says no. Why? Because He is God and His will is perfect for our lives.

If you’ve ever met me, I’ve spoken about the time I prayed for God to spare the life of my four-year-old little girl Brynleigh and my late wife Cassie. His answer was “no”. Could God have delivered their lives? Absolutely. Could God have prevented the wreck that stole them from me? No doubt. Could God have allowed our family to miraculously walk away from the wreck unfazed as a testimony to His divine power? For sure. Why didn’t He then? I don’t fully know that answer.

What I do know is that as He has before, God continues to remind me: His grace is enough. He doesn’t always give me the answer. So what can we do when God’s answer is “no”? Trust Him. I have seen lives changed around the world because of the pain that God has blessed me to experience and brought me through. Don’t misunderstand, if I could I would take away the pain. But it is that very pain that God has used to open the door into the pain of other people’s lives for Him to minister and transform them.

As I stood in El Salvador before a room of young men and women who have seen and experienced pain in ways I may never know, I shared Jesus. There in the small class with high schoolers who didn’t speak my language, I poured out my heart about the wreck. As I spoke and my translator translated, the Holy Spirit moved in the pain. Tears began to flow down faces, these precious people began to connect with the pain. The very pain that threatened to destroy me now served as the permission to share the truth of Jesus with them. After I finished speaking, we prayed and gave an invitation and hands began to go up as a celebration began in heaven.

Thinking about it now brings tears to my eyes. God was there no other way? What if there wasn’t? What if the only way these lives would come to faith in Christ is for my sweet Brynleigh to be stolen from me much too early. I have prayed for years that God would use me, what if being used by God is what this looks like and feels like? What if His “no” when I desperately prayed for Cassie and Brynleigh was the way in which He intended to transform countless lives? I praise Him for the “no” knowing that His grace has been and will always be sufficient.

As you prepare to pray today, I encourage you to know that even if God says “no” to your most desperate plea, you can still trust Him. Here I sit and I want to tell you, God is good all the time. You can trust Him that through the “no” sometimes He moves more powerfully than He would have through an answered prayer. Sometimes the “no” may feel crushing but come to Him with every weary and wounded moment, Jesus will give you rest (Matthew 11:28).

Lord, thank you for the times you answer no to our most desperate prayers. We confess we don’t understand why, but we know that your grace is sufficient. Lord, let your grace overwhelm us with a peace that passes understanding. We know that your love for us is deeper than we can understand and even in the midst of a “no”, you still love us and you are good. Today we pray that your strength would be made perfect in our weakness. When we can’t walk Lord, carry us. Jesus we come to you with every weary and wounded thought, please give us rest, it’s in Jesus’ Name we pray, Amen.

Day 15 — Being Childlike (Not Childish) In Prayer

Matthew 18:3 — “And he said: ‘Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.’”

1 Corinthians 13:11 — “When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.”

I’m the #1 dad according to a picture sitting on my desk where I’m writing this. As I look at the smiles of 4 of my 5 children, I’m trying to think about the qualities they have as little children. What makes them childlike? Though I’m sure there are more than these, I think about things like hope, joy, faith, wonder, innocence, trust, and forgiveness. My children think I can, even when I’m not so sure. They find wonder in the world around them. They are filled with joy and are so quick to forgive. They posses so many qualities that I feel like I’ve lost along this long road called life.

As I look at the contrast of what Jesus says in today’s focal Scripture and what Paul writes, I see a necessary balance. I believe in our prayer life we should approach God with wonder and faith. I believe we should approach Him with trust and a heart that is willing to trust Him. We should also forgive others knowing that if we don’t, God won’t forgive us (Matthew 6:15). As we seek to approach God in prayer through childlike faith, we need to be on guard against childish faith.

Those same sweet smiles that are looking back at me from the picture on my desk also struggle to see the whole picture. Instead of trusting me when I say they can’t have cookies for breakfast, they may reason that cookies taste good and go great with milk, so if I don’t let them have cookies either I’m a monster who doesn’t like cookies, or I don’t want them to have good things… neither one of those things are true. What I know is that if they eat an unhealthy breakfast, that it will eventually cause them so many more problems.

As we approach God in prayer, we should do so with childlike faith, wonder, trust, and a forgiving heart. We however should not approach God with a childish attitude. When we pray but things don’t turn out like we think they should, let us work to trust God anyway. Even when it would be easier to pout and say “you must not love me then” like a child, let us press past our childish tendencies. Just in case you don’t think I’m talking to you out there today, I am. I don’t care how old you are, how long you’ve been walking with Christ, how “mature” you are in your faith, all of us need this reminder.

The Scripture tells us that God’s ways are so much higher than our ways, that His thoughts are higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). But His ability to answer our prayers is also far beyond anything we could hope or imagine. Today as you pray, my hope is that you would approach God knowing that He knows you (Luke 12:7), your prayers are precious to Him (Revelation 8:4), and He even bottles up your tears because they are precious to Him (Psalm 56:8). But if God doesn’t answer your prayer the way you think He should, remember that He still has a purpose and a plan and seek His will for your life.

Lord, help us have childlike faith. Help us not be jaded and cynical when we come to prayer. Lord the enemy tries to convince us that You don’t know us, don’t care about us, or are unable to move in our lives. In Jesus name we cast out all those lies. Lord, help us not only have childlike faith in our prayers but help us avoid the childish traps when it comes to our relationship. When we pray for cookies but you know we need vegetables, Lord help us praise you for the food that You’ve given us. Thank you for your consistent love, your steadfast faithfulness, and the constant grace you pour out on us, in Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Day 14 — Things That Hinder Prayer (You Mean There’s More?)

Matthew 5:23-24 — “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.”

This may sound controversial, but did you know there are things that can hinder your prayer life? Even as born again, committed followers of Jesus there are things that can keep us from having a deep, unhindered, intimate prayer life. In today’s focal Scripture I think we see two clear indications that we need to give thought to our actions and the condition of our heart as we seek God’s will.

Does God really care how I treat my wife Amber? Of course, He does. In fact, it is a command that I love my wife like Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). In that command I should also realize that mistreating my wife and failing to treat her in a Christ honoring way can take me out of the will of God and hinder my prayer life. I think the central point for husbands and wives is this: if we are failing to love our spouse in a Christ honoring way, this can and does hinder our intimate prayer time with God.

Secondly, Jesus points out that if we come to the altar (wherever we pray is an altar) and remember that someone has a real issue with our behavior, we should pause before we come to the altar to commune with God and seek reconciliation with them. As I sit here writing this devotion, I’m asking God “what is the central theme of these thoughts?” I think the answer is this: when we fail to love others how God intends and then we think we can boldly stroll before the throne without thinking it will impact our relationship with God, we are wrong.

Think about it this way, my son Kasen and my daughter Abigail love to fight with each other. I’ve found myself again and again reminding Kasen: “Abigail is my daughter, you aren’t going to treat her like that.” I’ve also reminded Abigail: “Kasen is my son, you aren’t going to treat him like that.” Imagine then that as they are mistreating each other that one of them would have the audacity to try and walk up to me and begin a casual conversation as if nothing had happened…this has actually occurred in my home before. I have stopped the conversation and made them reconcile before we could move on to anything else.

This may not be a purely Biblical example of how this process works out but remember God’s love for each of us is perfect. When we mistreat someone (especially our spouses) it is foolish to think God is unaffected. Imagine His frustration when we come to Him with unresolved anger, unforgiveness, or sin that we refuse to face and confess. I can almost hear Him saying: “no Daniel, you just mistreated Amber. She is my daughter, go apologize to her first and then come back and let’s talk.”

Today as you pray, consider this question: who are you still refusing to forgive? Is there something you’ve done that you are even refusing to forgive yourself for? It’s time to face that unforgiveness. If it is keeping you from a deeper, more intimate prayer life with God… isn’t it time to give it up? Secondly, consider how you are treating your spouse in light of Scripture. The command is simple… husbands love your wives, wives submit to your husbands. (Ephesians 5:24-25) If you are failing to love your spouse the way God intended, know that this will hinder your prayer. It’s time to face this reality and stop setting unbiblical preconditions on your submission to God’s Word (“I’ll do this when they do this…”). Press in deeper to God’s presence and confess any failures, ask for forgiveness, and seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit to live in a way that glorifies Him.

Lord, we submit our entire lives to you. We submit our unforgiveness and our spouses to you. Help us Lord forgive and love the way you’ve commanded. Teach us to be more like You in these areas of our live. Reveal to us any unforgiveness or any area we don’t love our spouses in the way you’ve commanded. Help us realize that the power of our prayer is limited in these two very serious areas. Help us submit to you even when it’s hard to submit to others. Help us place the highest value on Your Word and trust your process. Help us do what you’ve commanded even when those we love most are not. Give us an intimacy like we’ve never had in our prayer life. We believe that as we know you more, we will know true love, in Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Day 13 — Can My Prayers Be Hindered?

1 Peter 3:7 — “Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.”

I have often heard it said that “God always hears our prayers.” We hear Scriptures such as, 1 John 5:15 that says, “And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him.” We may be tempted to immediately draw that conclusion. But as Jesus challenged Satan during his wilderness temptation with the simple retort, “It is also written” (Mat. 4:7), perhaps we should examine more of what Scripture has to say on the matter.

Our Scripture today from 1 Peter 3 would seem to indicate that our neglect of our spouses, lack of respect or lack of being considerate may indeed hinder our prayers. 1 Peter 3:12 says, “For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their prayer, but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.” God apparently does listen attentively to those who are righteous (in right standing with God), but it seems as if He is set against, or deaf, to those who do evil. This echoes David who writes in the Psalms, “If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened;” (Ps. 66:18). David was a “man after God’s own heart,” if there was anyone who was righteous before God it was him…and yet, he laments that his own predilection to sin could keep his prayers from reaching God’s ears.

Now I’m not trying to scare you or bring condemnation or fear…all of our right actions are as filthy rags before Jesus (Isaiah 64:6; Rom. 3:10). We should be thankful to know that our righteousness (right standing) before God is not our doing. Faith in Jesus Christ alone is what gives us a right standing before God. And it keeps us right before Him (when we confess our sins — 1 John 1:9). But if you you feel like God is distant or not “hearing” you, you may want to take spiritual inventory. Is there any sin in your heart? Are you treating your spouse with respect? If so, the remedy is simple…confess your sins to God and you will find that, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)

Praise the Lord, my soul;
all my inmost being, praise his holy name.
Praise the Lord, my soul,
and forget not all his benefits—
who forgives all your sins
and heals all your diseases,
who redeems your life from the pit
and crowns you with love and compassion,
who satisfies your desires with good things
so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.
The Lord works righteousness
and justice for all the oppressed.
He made known his ways to Moses,
his deeds to the people of Israel:
The Lord is compassionate and gracious,
slow to anger, abounding in love.
He will not always accuse,
nor will he harbor his anger forever;
he does not treat us as our sins deserve
or repay us according to our iniquities.
For as high as the heavens are above the earth,
so great is his love for those who fear him;
as far as the east is from the west,
so far has he removed our transgressions from us.
As a father has compassion on his children,
so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him;
for he knows how we are formed,
he remembers that we are dust.
The life of mortals is like grass,
they flourish like a flower of the field;
the wind blows over it and it is gone,
and its place remembers it no more.
But from everlasting to everlasting
the Lord’s love is with those who fear him,
and his righteousness with their children’s children—
with those who keep his covenant
and remember to obey his precepts.
The Lord has established his throne in heaven,
and his kingdom rules over all.
Praise the Lord, you his angels,
you mighty ones who do his bidding,
who obey his word.
Praise the Lord, all his heavenly hosts,
you his servants who do his will.
Praise the Lord, all his works
everywhere in his dominion.
Praise the Lord, my soul. Amen. (Psalm 103)

Day 12 — Praying Through Pain

Psalm 34:18 — “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

Matthew 11:28 — “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”

Imagine for a moment that you couldn’t hide the emotional scars and spiritual desperation that you’re feeling. Imagine that instead of saying “I’m doing fine” when someone asked that you were real: “my life is falling apart and I’m powerless to stop it”. Imagine being honestly broken before a holy God and confessing every heartache to Him. Do you know where God is when you are in pain? According to Scripture he is “close”. Close enough to save you from the despair. I imagine Him holding me and carrying me when I am too weak to even crawl to Him.

There have been moments after the death of my late wife and daughter where I locked my bedroom door, turned the music up loud so no one could hear me, and I screamed in agony at the floor. In my mind the emotions flooded every part of me as the pain threatened to overtake me and destroy me. My prayers became a mixture of confused cries and desperate pleas for the pain to stop. Do you know this type of praying? Chances are if you have ever lost someone you loved, you know what I mean.

It is far easier to slam the door shut on prayer after tragedy. I tried. I can remember feeling numb (physically, mentally, and spiritually). I can remember thinking “God I have faithfully served and followed you… how could you let this happen?” I can remember honestly being afraid that I would be in pain the rest of my days. That I would never be able to take care of my son Kasen or that I would be broken for the rest of my miserable life. I was wrong, you are too. But in the midst of that pain, we must continue praying and seeking God’s face.

Jesus doesn’t scold those who are weary and burdened for hurting. He gently beckons and tenderly calls them to come to Him for rest. When you are in pain, praying doesn’t seem to come naturally. You may not know what to pray or how to pray or why to pray. Pray any way. The Scripture promises us that the Holy Spirit makes intercession for us and even in our groaning and pain, He makes our prayers known to God. (Romans 8:26)

As you prepare to pray today (or if you are trying to avoid it) even as you’re reading this devotion, be honest with God. He is intimately aware of every thought and hurt you are facing. He hasn’t left you or forsaken you, Scripture promises He never will. Honestly, humbly, and simply bring your broken heart to God. If you need to yell, yell. If you need to cry, cry. If you need to scream until your voice is gone and cry until you have no more tears to cry, do it. Prayers prayed in honest humility and in surrender to Him are powerful prayers.

Lord, we confess our pain. The anger, hurt, and brokenness sometimes feel overwhelming. Thank you for being near us in our weakness Lord. Jesus we come to you seeking the rest You’ve promised. Lord You’ve been faithful and even though we are hurting now, even though the pain has blinded us, we come. Open our eyes to Your presence. Renew and refresh us. Lord we don’t know what we should do or what we should say, but You do. Jesus thank you that we never walk a single step alone, in Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Day 11 — Praying When Distracted

Psalm 46:10 — “Be still, and know that I am God! I will be honored by every nation. I will be honored throughout the world.”

What am I going to do for lunch today? Did I sign the kids agenda? Did I forget to pay the power bill? Hey God. Oh, that’s my favorite song! Is my music too loud? Should I be praying sitting down or while I’m kneeling? Thank you for another day Father.

Does that seem familiar? Distractions can be a powerful roadblock in our prayer time as the demands of life, work, marriage, and families can be at the forefront of our minds. For the longest time in ministry I can remember encouraging men and women to place all these thoughts, burdens, and distractions to the back of their mind as they made time to focus on the things of God. The problem? That isn’t fully possible.

Instead today I want to suggest something radical: when you pray, bring those things out immediately. Is your marriage struggling? Start there. Are you worried you might lose your job or not find another one? Begin your conversation with God there. I think doing this, speaking about the things in our life (even the “small” things) will help us start to clear our mind, and as the Scripture says we can “be still.” Remember, God knows exactly what you need (Matthew 6:8), but it may feel difficult to give Him your undivided attention while you are carrying all these burdens.

Don’t hide them or pretend they aren’t there. Humble yourself and confess the truth: “God I need you.” I think, at least for me, when I start here (confessing my overwhelming need to the only One who can truly do anything about it) the posture of my prayer and the reality of the situation converge: without you God I have no hope. But because of Jesus… I am assured that the Creator of the universe not only hears but even keeps my prayers because they are precious to Him! (Revelation 8:4).

So now you’ve started your prayer by confessing your needs and thoughts to God but you are still distracted, what now? How can you minimize distractions during your intimate prayer time with God? Turn the TV, music, and phone off. Lock your door. Find a private place you can spend a few minutes alone with God consistently and practice. Practice prayer? Yes, because learning to “be still” and know that God is who He says He is can take practice.

I can remember so many times I’ve been speaking with my wife Amber and I’ve failed to give her my undivided attention. Spoiler alert, it rarely ends well. I miss something she says or don’t fully grasp how important something is and things can become a big mess. It’s time to make an effort to confess the distractions we can’t eliminate, and to eliminate those we can. Think about it this way, doesn’t my wife deserve my undivided attention? How much more then does God deserve it?

I won’t promise it’ll be easy. You may have to give something up to make time to truly be still. But in those moments when you are, God will refresh you and just resting in His presence will give you the strength you need for another day.

Father we confess that our lives are full of distractions. People and things are all fighting for our attention and sometimes when we pray it’s hard to focus. We are thankful that in our weakness we can still come to you and with a humble heart we can feel the peace that only being in Your presence brings. Today Lord we want to be still. We want to know you are God. We want to take every worry, every earthly care, every burden, every trial, every thought that we have and place them at your feet. Calm our minds and help us to hear your voice, in Jesus’ Name we pray, Amen.

Day 10 — When Prayer Doesn’t Come Easy

Romans 8:26 — “In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.”

Have you ever had a tough time praying? I’m talking about times you made an intentional effort to get away and really spend some time speaking with God. Chances are likely that if you are like the rest of us, you have had times where prayer not only didn’t come easy, it seemed impossible to even find the words.

What will I say? I really messed up this time… is God even listening to me? I’m so hurt, how can I pray? It’s like my prayers are bouncing off the celling, what’s the use? There is something so beautiful about this promise concerning prayer. Even when we are too weak or don’t even know what to pray, the Holy Spirit interprets all the jumbled-up mess and our prayers still come before the God who loves us.

I can almost imagine when one of my children comes to me after something very painful has happened, with crying and painful moans, through my love for them I can still understand one thing: they need me. In that moment they need me to comfort them, help them heal in some way, and to provide in a way that reminds them I’m there. How much more then can our perfect heavenly Father help us in the midst of great pain and suffering in our lives.

I can clearly remember after the death of my late wife Cassie and four-year-old daughter Brynleigh spending many nights with my door locked, music turned all the way up, screaming and crying on my face before God. Although sometimes all I could do was weep, I am confident that as the Scripture promises, God kept track of every sorrow and collected every tear. (Psalm 56:8)

When words elude you, when your thoughts are jumbled and your mind is going a million different ways, when the pain and sorrow of the moment feel like they will overtake you: pray anyway. Prayer isn’t so much the words you speak or the thoughts in your mind as it is a posture of your heart that says: “here I am Lord. I need you.” Make up your mind today that you will make and keep an intimate time of prayer with God. Then, keep that appointment.

God, we confess we need you. Father sometimes in our weakness we become overwhelmed and even unable to know how or what to pray. Help us in those times. Lord Your Word promises that your Holy Spirit makes intercession for us and our prayer is that you remind us of this truth often. Help us make daily time spent with you a priority in our life. Hear the deepest groans of our heart and help us know that you are intimately aware of all our needs, in Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Day 9 – Can God Hear Me?

Romans 10:13 — “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.”

When it comes to prayer, perhaps one of the greatest questions is: Does God hear me? What good is it to seek God, to speak to Him, to attempt to get His attention through fasting, if He is not listening? Surely, the assurance that God hears us is a necessity. The first prayer God hears from anyone is “Lord, save me.” God is always listening for the cry of the lost to be found, for the broken to be healed, for the sinner to be saved. The assurance is God’s own Word that declares it. God’s Word is never wrong. We can also be assured that God’s ear is attentive to the righteous, “The eyes of the LORD are on the righteous, and his ears are attentive to their cry;” (Psalm 34:15) The natural question should then be, “Who is righteous?”

The good news is that God has made all men righteous through the blood of Jesus Christ. But there is only one way to activate this righteousness personally…through faith in Jesus Christ. “But now apart from the law the righteousness of God has been made known, to which the Law and the Prophets testify. This righteousness is given through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe.” (Romans 3:21-22) Faith is more than belief — it is belief, hope and trust in Jesus Christ and His death on the cross to pay for our sins. It is belief, hope and trust in Jesus Christ and His resurrection from the dead, so that we too will be raised to eternal life with God the Father. It is belief, hope and trust in Jesus Christ to complete the work of saving us not just from the penalty and consequence of sin, but also from the bondage and servitude to sin that we are all trapped in. When we place our faith in Jesus Christ, a divine transaction occurs…our sin (past, present and future) is paid for in full. We are declared righteous by God the Father and we are brought from death to life!

This new declaration of our righteousness means God now hears all our prayers! Because His Word confirms that “His ears are attentive” to our cry. God hears you.

Father God, I thank You that You are always listening. Thank You for saving me from my sin. Thank You for declaring me righteous through Jesus Christ. Help my faith to rest on nothing else but Christ’s completed work on the Cross. Lord, today I ask You with confidence for my every need. I believe Your Word, that You hear me, and that You will answer. I praise You for Your awesome promises and for Your great love for me. Help me today to reach out to others that they may see and experience Your love and call upon Your Name and be saved. Amen.

Day 7 — When Do I Pray?

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 — “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”

Paul answers this simple question with a most emphatic, “continually”! Always, without ceasing, never ending, never stopping — unbroken contact with God is our true need. Jesus allows us because of His work on the cross to have restored fellowship with God and be in constant contact with Him. That means that as we go about our daily lives, we live in an ever-present attitude of prayer. We give thanks in all circumstances, with a heart full of rejoicing, and so we remain aligned with His heart and intentions throughout the day.

Alright, let’s be honest — do we really experience this? Do we really find ourselves truly in this unhindered, uninterrupted state throughout the day? Some may answer “yes” — and I won’t fault you for it. Many will say “I do my best” and that “I experience something like this” — again I don’t question your honesty…But for those of you who struggle (I include myself in this category), can I just encourage you that the difference between the way things are and the way things ought to be, is often the experience that Christians relate to most profoundly. Circumstance is the chief enemy of this unhindered contact…and when it hits we are often ripped out of this pleasant state of thankfulness and rejoicing and plunged into a fury of things that act as an undertow that pulls us out into the depths of an ocean of despair.

How do we get out of the undertow? There is a “church answer” that we just pull ourselves out of it, or shake it off…pull ourselves up by our spiritual bootstraps so-to-speak. But the Bible answer is that we learn to give thanks, in any and all circumstances. This is not easy at first, of course. We must discipline our hearts to understand God’s desire for our good no matter what. When we develop a grateful heart that begins to give thanks, even for life’s hardships, we are getting closer to God’s heart. We find it easier to joy and joy again (rejoice)…we are transformed in mind and body. We trust God’s heart that He works all things for our good and His glory. (Rom. 8:28) The avenue of “prayer at all times” opens as He transforms our minds and hearts into His. The more we pray continually, the more natural it becomes.

Father, sometimes it is hard for me to stay in tune with You. I get bowled over easily by the stresses and worries of the day. Please help me to stay connected to You through my day. Help me to remain in that state that Your Son knew of being perfectly aligned with You. I want to have Your joy constantly. Help me to joy and joy and joy and joy! Thank You for Your great patience and lovingkindness toward me. Thank You for my life and each breath that I have. Thank You for my family and friends, thank You for my church and for Your grace. You are amazing and I will remember that even in the hard times of life. Thank You for every moment, even the difficult ones, that You allow me to experience. I am grateful for Your great glory. Amen.

Day 6 – Being Consistent in Prayer

Matthew 7:7 — “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”

The depths of the Scriptures can elude us if we aren’t careful in our study of God’s Word. At first glance, this Scripture focused on prayer, is a simple directive to ask, seek, and knock. A closer look begins to uncover a depth of Jesus’ instructions that should serve as a constant reminder when we seek God in prayer. First, consider the 3 separate actions mentioned here: “ask”, “seek”, “knock”. All three of these steps act in unison in a healthy prayer life but all have a different part to play.

Sometimes it can be difficult to translate the depth of the original Biblical languages into English. In this verse for example we are instructed to ask, seek, and knock but the English would incorrectly lead us to believe this is a one-time action. I don’t often like to switch around to different translations to make a point, but the Holman Christian Standard translation gives us a much more accurate translation of this verse:

“Keep asking, and it will be given to you. Keep searching, and you will find. Keep knocking, and the door will be opened to you.” (Matthew 7:7 HCSB)

Do you see it? There is a consistent approach in this verse that should invigorate our prayers. If you’re going to ask God, don’t stop asking in prayer until He has given you a clear answer. The parable of the widow and the unjust judge is an example of how consistent we should be in prayer. (Luke 18:1-8)

What’s the deal with this? Is God hard of hearing? Is He so busy He needs a reminder? Do we have to beg? Certainly not. Consistency in prayer and seeking God’s face is not meant to change the heart of God, it is meant to change ours. As we keep asking, keep searching, and keep knocking the Holy Spirit will begin to change our hearts and bring us into God’s will for our lives.

Just a warning here and a reminder: sometimes God’s answer is no. If God’s answer is no, trust that He is still good and that His will for your life is perfect. Sometimes what we think we really need turns out to be the thing that will take us out of the will of God.

As you pray today, present your needs to God (knowing He already knows your needs – Matthew 6:8). Walk boldly into the throne room to find mercy and grace to help in your time of need (Hebrews 4:16). Seek God’s will along with presenting your desire for an answered prayer. Be prepared to say: “not my will be done, but Your Will God” (Luke 22:2). Lastly, urgently knock at the door until God answers. As you ask, seek, and knock, continue to trust God through the process. Remember this truth: even when it feels like Jesus is four days late, He is right on time. (John 11:38-43)

Lord in Jesus name we come asking, seeking, and knocking. Jesus we confess that without You our prayers would never make it past the celling. But because of you Lord we know that our prayers reach the Father. Help us not to give up hope. Some of us have been praying for weeks, months, or years and it seems like we’ve prayed in vain. Remind us that we never pray in vain Lord. Surround us with your presence and remind us that the God who spoke the universe into existence by the power of His Word hears our prayers and will move in ways we can’t understand. Lord help us in our spiritual exhaustion to continue diligently seeking Your will for our lives. Give us grace to sustain us, in Jesus’ Name, Amen.